On Thursday, I had the absolute pleasure of staying home with my baby. I hold those days so sacred. I l.o.v.e just being with him all day. I decided to hide my phone so I would not be tempted to go on Facebook, Instagram, or Pinterest. Out of the entire day we spent together, which was 7 a.m. to 7 p.m., I only spent an hour collectively on my phone and not with him. Unless of course, he was sleeping then I could use my phone freely. I'll be honest. It was hard. I don't really like to admit that either. I am basically admitting my child is boring. But he can't really talk, so I lose interest easily and end up wasting a lot of time being unproductive. But that day, I would just refocus my energy again and read books, sing, and just interact with him. While he played by himself {because that is important to learn too}, I would clean until he would become fussy and then I was right at his side. So. I have decided that when I am with my children, I am unplugged. Of course I will still have my phone on loud and in the same vicinity. However, I will not be surfing the web like I usually do when I am completely exhausted and tired from work. Every day it takes a huge amount of dedication to this goal. I have only been doing this Thursday, Friday, and Saturday. And to be honest, Friday was a fail and Saturday I made a valiant effort but it wasn't that great either. Hopefully as time continues, it will become easier. Because it is pretty dang hard right now.
Your better than I am! Sadly Crew sometimes has to pull my phone out of my hand to get my attention. Not good, but it's something I am always trying to work on!
Your better than I am! Sadly Crew sometimes has to pull my phone out of my hand to get my attention. Not good, but it's something I am always trying to work on!
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